From my Birth Moms:

“What words can thank you for participating in one of life’s most difficult and most beautiful moments. I do not know how I was so blessed to have found someone who could so gently and effortlessly guide us through such an event. Thank you for two beautiful births, many words of wisdom, and such an open friendship. We will never repay what you’ve given us and even so, I know you don’t expect us to, and that is part of the gift.”
— Kelly, mom to Graham, Kendall, Jude, and John Gabriel

“Shelley, Thank you so much for everything you’ve done for us. Milo’s birth would have been a vastly different experience without you— I’m not at all sure I could have done it naturally without your help”
— Krisdee, mom to Milo, andEliot

“Shelley was more than we ever could have hoped for. I called her throughout our pregnancy and she was always there for me, answering questions at all hours of the night. She spent hours at our house with my husband and me teaching us ways to handle the feelings of labor naturally. When we entered labor, Shelley was indispensable. Our labor lasted 34 hours and she rubbed my back almost the entire time! This enabled my husband to spend his time concentrating on my emotional state. Many times throughout the labor, I felt as if I couldn’t go on. At the time I was unaware that our baby was in a posterior position, putting pressure directly on my back. Once it became apparent that the baby was no longer turning as he should have been, Shelley led me through countless positions to try and turn the baby naturally. With Shelley’s encouragement, we continued to successfully avoid the c-section.”
— Simone, mom to Max

“We can’t thank you enough for all you did. I’m certain our birth would have gone A LOT different if you had not been there to walk us (carry us) through it. Thank you doesn’t even begin to scratch the surface of how grateful we are for your clear headed guidance during our laboring ”
— Yvette, mom to Micah and Kai

“Thank you for being our amazing doula! We had such a fun, peaceful birth with Finley and owe it all to you. Thanks for your sweet and constant support in this amazing journey of motherhood.”
— Carissa, mom to Charlotte and Finley

“Louis and I want to express our heartfelt thanks for the loving care, support, and tender guidance you provided during our son’s birth. We know that your coaching and expertise greatly contributed to us being able to achieve a natural birth. You truly are blessed with the grace to encourage any woman through childbirth.”
— Lori, mom to Matthew

From my Postpartum Moms:

“How can I/we ever thank you enough for all you have done for our family… you are an amazing doula and person. I feel so very blessed that our paths have crossed. Thank you!”
— Holly, mom to Grace, Foster, and Ethan

“I want to let you know what an important role you played while helping me/us postpartum. Mark and I talk of those early weeks often and how helpful, thoughtful, kind and special you are. You are in the perfect profession! You helped instill confidence in me, as a mother and I thank you.”
— Elise, mom to Natalie

“Shelley was an amazing help to me right after I had my second daughter. My girls were very close together, and Shelley’s support allowed me to be a good mom to both of them. I don’t know what I would have done without her!”
— Sharon, mom to Meaghan,  Natalie and Matthew

“Thank you so much for all of your help over the past 3 weeks- I’ve learned a lot from you and have really enjoyed having you in our home. You have eased my transition from a more delicate post-operative state to being able to manage the house and get through the day. I am now a big advocate for postpartum doulas!”
–Jeanne, mom to Camille and Calvin

From my Birth Dads:

“Thank you so much for being there for us during Camille’s labor. We are sure that without your support, the labor and delivery would not have gone as it did. We are so happy that we included you in Sydney’s delivery and may have to bring you to Dallas for the next one!”
— Earl, dad to Sydney

“Shelley, I cannot begin to thank you enough for all you did. I am forever in your debt! Thank you so much for the birth of our child.”
— Tony, Dad to Emma, and now, Molly

“Thank you so much for all of your support during this exciting time. Carissa and I ware so grateful for all that you have done. You will always be in our hearts.”
— Andrew, dad to Charlotte and Finley

“Your service and guidance were invaluable to us. Thank you for making our birth experience absolutely perfect. You are gifted at what you do.”
— Michael, dad to Nola

“When my wife Cynthia and I found out that people do more research when buying a car than when they have a baby, … we did some research! That research led us to our Doula, Shelley Scotka. Weeks before and during the birth process, Shelley, as an educated, unbiased, outside source, provided for my wife what I, as a husband could not! My wife had a sister and a mother who could not be in town because our sweet daughter came 3 weeks early. Shelley professionally and personally provided breathing techniques, different positions to feel the least amount of pain, and other somewhat vital options that we may have otherwise never known about. We wanted a natural birth with little to no pain medicine and as little risk as possible to baby Sadie, and Shelley did what she does best to made sure that we got just that! We will always remember her, especially her role in the awesome experience of the birth of our first child!”
— Aaron, dad to Sadie

From my Students:

“Our private lessons could not have come at a better time. We learned so much and feel so great about our upcoming birth. You are a wonderful teacher.”
— Roggie, mom to Laurel

“My husband, Bret, and I were in your St. David’s Advanced Coping
Method’s class in January. I wanted to let you know that we had our
baby on Tuesday. I was open to anything, but was able to have a
quick(only 5 hours) drug free labor and birth. Your advice and
information helped me feel more empowered than I felt during my last
childbirth experience, and Bret was a great support to me thanks to
your techniques. Thank you for everything!”
–Holly

“I attended the childbirth classes at Any Baby Can in October (and one in November).  I just wanted to send you an update of how my daughter is doing, which is fantastic at the moment.  I again sincerely thank you for giving me all of the information I needed to have a successful pregnancy and birth.”
— Maryum, mom to Amaris

“Shelley made class very fun, very informative, all practical things I’ll need for this journey.  Now I feel prepared to make decisions regarding my birth. She helped me realize what I want out of my birth experience. She is a great, knowledgeable instructor!”
–Expectant Mother in anonymous evaluation from St Davids Medical Center “Reality Childbirth” class

How does a doula really make a difference?
Results from different studies have all suggested that having a doula reduces the overall cesarean rate by 50%, Pitocin use by 40% and requests for epidurals by 60%. The use of a doula also showed a major reduction in the length of labor due to fewer stress hormones being produced in the laboring woman’s body.

The Doula Book © 2002; Klaus, Marshall, Klaus and Kennell.